how to get meta verified. I mean I'm in the waitlist for a year now

No idea, and there is no support system. If you pass, you will get in a week; otherwise, no one knows how long it would take; I believe even Meta did not know😅

No clue, been waiting for months too. Feels like a black box. Wish there was some transparency or ways to check your application status at least 🤷♂ Seems random whether you get approved in a week or left hanging indefinitely.