15+ Years Of Entrepreneurial / Work-From-Home Lifestyle
Deron D
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Ask me anything you'd like.
I've spent 15+ years working from home in online finance (7 years), travel planning (7+ years), and life coaching (4+ years) with some overlap.
I've had many ups and downs (sometimes it seems like the downs never end).
If I can contribute in any small way to helping you avoid the heartache and pitfalls I've run into, I'm happy to! If I can share my experience to help you get to that next level, also happy to share!
Ask away!
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Natali@lapwork
It would be interesting to hear how the first step was learning how to allocate time between work and life. What made it possible not to get distracted and to fulfill the tasks at hand.
And if there was an opportunity today to give 1 piece of advice to yourself in the past, what would it sound like?
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@lapwork in terms of not allowing life to be a distraction, I would say it’s incredibly important to have an end goal (or goals) in mind, a vision, a hope, a dream.
For me, for a long time it was the idea of building and maintaining a solid income that I could work from anywhere so that I could see more of my favorite places.
The idea of being able to visit family and friends around the world, see new places, eat new foods, meet new people was a huge motivator. And, when I reminded myself, it kept me focused and driven.
As for advice, I would tell myself to dream even bigger. Sure, not even goal or vision is achieved, but the higher you aim, the higher you can reach.
@cen_xu the most important habit would most likely be not giving up.
Sometimes, things are not very easy at all. Sometimes, it can seem like the world is against you. Sometimes, it seemed just about impossible and that I had failed.
But, I’ve maintained my dedication, diligence, loyalty to my values, and resilience which has helped me continue to drive forward even in the most difficult times.
I'd like to ask these 2 questions;
1: could you please tell us how your skills have developed in different fields and the valuable perspective you've gained from your diverse background?
2: Which country have you found the most captivating, and what specific aspects made it memorable for you?
@mahnoor_abdullah thank you for asking.
I’ll answer your questions in separate responses since the first one is long!
1. This is a long answer; but you can scroll down to ‘#1 Synopsis’ for the conclusion and valuable information.
I have gained a wide variety of experiences that have turned into skills over time from the various industries. In my case, each thing built on another.
I got my college degree in accounting and before my first online job, I spent almost 10 years in hospitality (restaurants, hotels, and clubs), where I learned valuable customer service skills.
Those customer service and accounting skills got me hired to a small online financial firm first as a bookkeeper part time.
They saw how motivated and dedicated I was to tasks and hired me full time as an office assistant and customer service.
The job required me to update their website weekly with their investment information and that required me to learn html, a little php, wordpress, and basic javascript.
A little while I left that job, I was hired by another financial firm to do those same tasks and more as Membership Manager and eventually Managing Editor of the newsletter. I redesigned their website and membership site completely, learning on the job. And, my previous experience played a huge role.
5 years later, I was requested to work for a luxury concierge service for those same skills (and many more that I had gained along the way) and for the fact that I was a full time traveler for 2 years at that point.
#1 Synopsis
It’s been my experience that skills grow over time and stack onto each other. What may sometimes seem like a failure may actually be a great learning experience where you picked up new skills and knowledge to use for your next project!
@mahnoor_abdullah 2. Iceland is by far my favorite place to visit. I've been there 18 times so far.
I love the people, the lifestyle, and the culture — especially the hot springs and pool houses that can be visited daily.
I love hot / cold treatments, which I think are really good for the body. I love swimming in the sea — especially in winter. I love the possibility of seeing the aurora in the winter.
The food is fantastic, including some great places for lobster soup, grilled arctic char, and greenhouse vegetables.
I love the landscapes, that include glaciers, fjords, and even sometimes volcanoes (I went on 2 hikes in 2021 to get up close and personal with the active volcano Fagradallsfjall).
I could likely visit Iceland every year for the rest of my life.
Other places I love to visit include Spain, Denmark, Turkey, Indonesia, and Costa Rica... they all their own characteristics that make them so great to visit!
But, really in having visited almost 4 dozen country and territories, I've found something to love in all of them. And, I'm keen to visit even more!
Hi Deron! I would like to ask how can I be productive at work while at home even though I have a lot of personal things to deal with? Like family issues, mood swings, even discouragements from other people. Is there a tip you can give for me to be more focused?
@cristina_espanol work-home-life-balance is one of the biggest challenges just about every work-from-home person has! It's very understandable.
The most important thing is to be able to find a location in your home where you can work undisturbed — even if it's only for 30 minutes or an hour at a time. If you can designate a certain time each work day for that, it's even better. Then, telling the people in your home something like, "from 9am-10am, on these days, I need to be able to work undistracted."
And, just as important, when it's not that working time, be as present and focused as possible on the people in your home.
I had two ex-girlfriends in my early years of working from home who used to also talk to me and ask me for things while I was trying to work. I used to get frustrated. Then, I learned that if I spoil them with all of my love, affection, and attention and give them my complete focus at certain times each day, they came and distracted me far less and let me work in peace far more during designated times.
I also found it useful to work outside of the home (even though I was working from home, I was not at home haha!). Sometimes it's nice to go to a cafe or even a park if there is an internet connection where I can work. It's less personal because even though there are others around, they are not people who will generally just come up and talk to you while you're trying to focus.
Hope some of these ideas help!
When things were not happening well, what was your motivation to have faith in the process? when you were having external interferences to your focus- how did you manage to be strong and focus more on your goals? i mean was there any affirmation or any quotes.. which always keep you motivated. is there any role model you follow in life?
@kasun_jayarathna1, good questions!
I believe the most important thing is to focus on two very important ideas:
1. What do I really want in all of this? What do I really want to accomplish, do, achieve, or be?
And
2. Why do I want this? Why is this important to me?
When things aren’t going well, it can be easy to forget our dreams, and we can become discouraged.
That’s why it’s important to have your vision written down; and why this vision is important to you. That way, during challenging times, you can look at it and remind yourself what it is you’re aiming for.
It’s also important to adopt a mindset of “what have I learned in this” or “how am
I growing / improving” in this or “how can I make the most of this situation”. These can all help during the most difficult times.
I hope that helps!