Feel like a fraud sometimes? How do you overcome imposter syndrome?

I was supposed to lead a team at 25 and had no clue what I was doing. I suppose being open about it always helps

Believe in yourself and constantly remind yourself about accepting as things are. Because in reality everything is always different than what you have in your head. Also, having a little luck by your side is not wrong. All you gotta do is change your thought process and think in a direction where you're more content and accepting about almost everything. :)

I don't have an answer for this, so I'm here watching the comments hoping someone else does 👀

Yup feel like this all the time - not sure I've really got over it!

Yep, I often feel like this! Are they ever going to find out that I'm a fraud? I try to answer this question quickly: "They are very smart. They would know already, so you're not a fraud!

wait wahat...is thats actually a thing

I think the phrase "Act confident and no one will question you" generally is true 😂 In the meantime, trust your intuition, listen to those with experience, always be open to learning, and help those who are also trying to learn and grow.

Honestly, I don't think anyone knows 100% what they're doing all the time. Most people are just winging a lot of things, and seeing what works/doesn't work. Another thing to remember is that you constantly learn due to the challenges you face, thus developing your abilities on the go. Someone once told me his best advice was to 'fake it till you make it' and I honestly believe that is what a lot of people do in general when they know where they want to be. Most importantly: be kind to yourself and believe in your abilities or no one else will!

I dont think i’ll ever get over it🫠

Seeing discussions like this and seeing that everyone else suffers from imposter syndrome is certainly comforting, in an odd way. If everyone is an imposter, then nobody is!

It's normal to feel out of place sometimes; at times it feels like you're pretending to be someone you're not or like you're not an expert or good enough. You fear that if others knew your flaws they might not accept you. But it turns out that: - If you're not a celebrity or a big name in your space, no one is paying much attention to your mistakes (Okay, maybe except for me). - Even experts feel that way too, perhaps even more, as they have their careers on the line. I've learned that imposter syndrome is but a mindset of fear of possible rejection. I think the best way to deal with it is to not be an imposter. You become an imposter because you believe it. - Share like a beginner. - Be open-minded and admit when you're wrong. - Believe in what you say. Confidence is a reflection of what you're thinking. - You will make mistakes 80% of the time, but these mistakes make you authentic. Perfection is overrated.

Firstly, I must admit and tell myself that I am not omniscient. On the other hand, I have in mind that I am still in progress and actually I can always update my interpretation. For example, that's why I do not delete my posts on IG.

I don't ever really feel like an actual "imposter". The closest thing that gets to it is when I am doubting I bring enough value to the table (which, based on the situation, I won't always blame on myself, e.g. when I simply do what someone needs me to do and not more it's their active decision to limit me as a resource). That's a very specific thing you can change however, so whenever I feel like I should bring more value I will take this as an impulse to bring my value up. Even just starting to think how to improve myself and my capabilities and abilities is a valueable beginning to actually improving those things. Then further down the road I may go and learn a new skill, a new tool, or go through a new valueable experience. What comes from this at some point (if it didn't before) I will start getting constant real-time and real-world confirmation with the people I work with that I am in fact not an imposter, which makes it pretty hard and pretentious to still think I might be one.

In the software engineering field the program should always run as the accurate & expected result, but sometimes the code implements are very complex, it's very difficult to work out a comprehensive solution, thus we have to seek some workarounds or plan B. Commonly it needs lot more programming basics & experience, computer science knowledge, and boring debug, but occasionally the sudden burst of inspiration may lead the way.

I'll say... by trusting in others. We may find ourselves in a position of power or with a lot of responsibilities, and it may feel like all of these things have just happened by a string of unlikely coincidences. It may feel like for all these years, we've just managed to trick people into believing that we are competent. I believe that the source of these thoughts is something I'd call the... hubris of our mind. Thinking we actually know better than others, subconsciously or not, while in actuality, we hardly ever do. And yet, even the information we base these thoughts on is made out of things we ourselves have noticed, disregarding all the other things we have not. You might think about how anxious you were to complete a task, ignoring how you actually managed to research, develop, test and fix the thing, and how that takes a lot of skill in itself. I think that's when it's important to have trustworthy people around you whom you respect in times like these, who can give you a less biased opinion. Kind of like... you don't have to carry the weight of the world by yourself situation. Anyway, this has inadvertently turned into a wall of text. I wish you best of luck!

Without luck very few succeed. So assuming some of the achieved results was because of luck is in all probability true making it the correct starting point. From there what you need to be honest about is , are you giving 100 % and are you ready to continue giving 100 percent as long as it takes. If yes, then go ahead without fear. Nobody ever did anything with all that was required from step one.

I cash my paycheck and move on to the next psychic crisis.

Most of time I feel I know what I do. But if not, I research and research. Better to take time to learn what you must do. Also, never be afraid to say "no" or "i will need more time" when you take something on that you don't know how to do. Honesty works better.

It's funny how seeing solidarity on a post like this eases the feelings of imposter syndrome.

I just accepted that I'm a fraud and have no idea of many of the things I'm doing. If something goes well then, I'm pleasantly surprised.